Benjamin P. Hardy Quotes

“Becoming psychologically flexible is key to personal transformation, not overattaching to your current identity or perspectives. Becoming insatiably committed to a future purpose and embracing emotions rather than avoiding them is how radical change occurs.”

“Choosing one's own way is what makes one human – and the more you own the power of your own decision-making, the more your life and outcomes will be within your control.”

“Few people intentionally define and shape their identity, based on who they plan to be, and then become that person.”

“People use the past as the excuse to remain stuck in habits and attitudes that keep them from growing.”

“Personality is not stable but changes regardless of whether you’re purposeful about that change or not.”

“Without a meaningful goal, attempting changes lacks meaning, requires unsustainable willpower, and ultimately leads to failure.”

“You are not a single and narrow 'type' of person. In different situations and around different people, you are different. Your personality is dynamic, flexible, and contextual. Moreover, your personality changes throughout your life, far more than you can presently imagine.”

“You earn your confidence through intentional action toward meaningful goals. You can only borrow so much confidence from the distant past.”