Who the heck is Carl R. Rogers?

Carl Rogers is referred as the most influential psychologist to ever walk the face of the Earth.

Books by Carl R. Rogers

Quotes by Carl R. Rogers

“A person cannot teach another person directly; a person can only facilitate another's learning.”

Carl R. Rogers

“A person is a fluid process, not a fixed and static entity; a flowing river of change, not a block of solid material; a continually changing constellation of potentialities, not a fixed quantity of traits.”

Carl R. Rogers On Becoming a Person

“Am I living in a way which is deeply satisfying to me, and which truly expresses me?”

Carl R. Rogers

“As no one else can know how we perceive, we are the best experts on ourselves.”

Carl R. Rogers

“Growth occurs when individuals confront problems, struggle to master them, and through that struggle develop new aspects of their skills, capacities, views about life.”

Carl R. Rogers

“I don't believe that anyone has ever taught anything to anyone. I question that efficacy of teaching. The only thing that I know is that anyone who wants to learn will learn. And maybe a teacher is a facilitator, a person who puts things down and shows people how exciting and wonderful it is and asks them to eat.”

Carl R. Rogers

“I'm not perfect... But I'm enough.”

Carl R. Rogers

“I’ve always felt I had to do things because they were expected of me, or more important, to make people like me. The hell with it! I think from now on I’m going to just be me—rich or poor, good or bad, rational or irrational, logical or illogical, famous or infamous.”

Carl R. Rogers On Becoming a Person

“If I let myself really understand another person, I might be changed by that understanding. And we all fear change. So as I say, it is not an easy thing to permit oneself to understand an individual.”

Carl R. Rogers On Becoming a Person

“In my early professional years I was asking the question: How can I treat, or cure, or change this person? Now I would phrase the question in this way: How can I provide a relationship which this person may use for his own personal growth?”

Carl R. Rogers

“In my relationships with persons I have found that it does not help, in the long run, to act as though I were something that I am not.”

Carl R. Rogers On Becoming a Person

“Loneliness is a barrier that prevents one from uniting with the inner self.”

Carl R. Rogers

“Man's inability to communicate is a result of his failure to listen effectively.”

Carl R. Rogers

“People are just as wonderful as sunsets if you let them be. When I look at a sunset, I don't find myself saying, "Soften the orange a bit on the right hand corner." I don't try to control a sunset. I watch with awe as it unfolds.”

Carl R. Rogers A Way of Being

“People only seriously consider change when they feel accepted for exactly who they are.”

Carl R. Rogers

“The curious paradox is that when I accept myself just as I am, then I can change.”

Carl R. Rogers On Becoming a Person

“The degree to which I can create relationships, which facilitate the growth of others as separate persons, is a measure of the growth I have achieved in myself.”

Carl R. Rogers On Becoming a Person

“The good life is a process, not a state of being. It is a direction not a destination.”

Carl R. Rogers

“The only person who cannot be helped is that person who blames others.”

Carl R. Rogers

“The only person who is educated is the one who has learned how to learn and change.”

Carl R. Rogers

“The process of the good life is not, I am convinced, a life for the faint-fainthearted. It involves the stretching and growing of becoming more and more of one's potentialities. It involves the courage to be. It means launching oneself fully into the stream of life. Yet the deeply exciting thing about human beings is that when the individual is inwardly free, he chooses as the good life this process of becoming.”

Carl R. Rogers On Becoming a Person

“There is direction but there is no destination.”

Carl R. Rogers

“True empathy is always free of any evaluative or diagnostic quality. This comes across to the recipient with some surprise. "If I am not being judged, perhaps I am not so evil or abnormal as I have thought.”

Carl R. Rogers

“We cannot change, we cannot move away from what we are, until we thoroughly accept what we are. Then change seems to come about almost unnoticed.”

Carl R. Rogers On Becoming a Person

“We live by a perceptual "map" which is never reality itself.”

Carl R. Rogers Client-Centered Therapy

“We think we listen, but very rarely do we listen with real understanding, true empathy. Yet listening, of this very special kind, is one of the most potent forces for change that I know.”

Carl R. Rogers A Way of Being

“What I am is good enough if I would only be it openly.”

Carl R. Rogers

“What is most personal is most universal.”

Carl R. Rogers On Becoming a Person

“What you are to be, you are now becoming.”

Carl R. Rogers

“When a person realizes he has been deeply heard, his eyes moisten. I think in some real sense he is weeping for joy. It is as though he were saying, "Thank God, somebody heard me. Someone knows what it's like to be me.”

Carl R. Rogers

“You can't possibly be afraid of death, really, you can only be afraid of life.”

Carl R. Rogers Client-Centered Therapy