Chase Amante Quotes
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|Born||May 17, 1983|
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“Appearing effortless is a critical part of being successful in dating, relationships, and all manner of courtship and social interactions.”
“Don't chase girls, get girls chasing you!”
“Every man you think of as 'cool' subconsciously knows and obeys the Law of Least Effort. He does things that minimize the appearance of effort on his part, while maximizing his results.”
“Get good at giving orders and commands in a very relaxed, low-effort way. When giving people orders or commands, you want to give those orders or commands in a voice that is both dominant and demanding, but also relaxed and calm. The more effortlessly you appear to state your demands, the more likely you are to get compliance with those demands.”
“Having a goal of, 'I am going to perfect myself and my approach with women until I am the prize.', is a much more effective way of going about things than simply stating, 'I am the prize.' and being disappointed when women don't automatically agree.”
“I pride myself on being well-versed in everything I do, and seduction is no exception.”
“I've always felt like the 'I am the prize' mindset thrown about in the seduction community has always been a bit of a non sequitur standing next to the techniques that are generally taught.
'Go up and open her, and remember your A-game... and don't forget that you're the prize!'
No one ever seems to point out the one thing that doesn't make sense about this advice – the prize doesn't do the chasing.”
“If you're visibly expending a lot of effort while getting little in return, you're a bit of a joker to people; no one takes you seriously.
If on the other hand you're putting out very little visible effort, but getting a lot of returns, people stare at you in awe and call you cool, awesome, powerful, sexy, charming, amazing.”
“Keep correspondence with women short, direct, and to-the-point; use it primarily to arrange face-to-face meetings.”
“Learn the right voice tone for giving commands. You'll often want to raise your voice at the end of a command, as if it were a question, without actually making it a question. This raises buy-in substantially and eliminates much of the chance a woman resents you for giving her a command.”
“Learn to move slowly and regally; powerful men don't jerk around or move much. Strong men have abundant levels of stillness.”
“Learn to respond to jokes or insults with subtle facial expressions instead of verbal responses. In fact, learn to respond to many things that don't necessarily need a verbal contribution with expressions instead.”
“Master the arts of deep diving and conversation to get women talking a great deal while speaking sparingly yourself.”
“My angle for success with women is, boiled down, all about being cool and moving fast.”
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“Sprezzatura. Just remember you want to be the king – leave being the jester to all the other guys out there.”
“Talk slowly and use lots of pauses. Powerful men don't speed through their conversation; they take their time to make a point.”
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“Women are attracted to men who are bigger and stronger than them. This can lead to pain and harm or it can lead to protection and security. This uncertainty causes fear or excitement.
Fear is the uncertainty of a situation with the expectation of a negative outcome. Excitement is the uncertainty of a situation with the expectation of a positive outcome. The anticipation of uncertain situations makes a woman aroused. A woman never knows what she’s getting into with a man at first. So they put up their defenses from the start.
How do we get them to lower those defenses? By shifting their feelings from fear to excitement.”
“The funny thing is, the guy who navigates around the room to casually open a girl, when you think about it, he's actually expending more actual effort than the guy who just straight-lines it for the girl. But it isn't about actual effort – it's about the appearance of effort.”
“The knowing comes only through experience.”
“The Law of Least Effort is why kings sit on the throne while everyone else comes to them and stands and kneels. The Law of Least Effort is why women chase after rock stars and the band members have someone else pick out the prettiest ones and bring them to their rooms. The Law of Least Effort is why the male lion takes a nap all day and the females go out to hunt and bring him food and come to him to mate.
The weak man flails his arms about wildly and rushes from place to place and accomplishes little. The strong man waves a hand and his will is done.”
“The Law of Least Effort states that the more you can achieve while appearing to put in less effort, the more attractive, powerful, and 'cool' you are perceived as.”
“The more invested in you a woman is, the more attached to you she'll become, and the more likely she is to go along with what you want to do.
The more invested in a woman you become, the more attached to her you'll become, and the more you're going to capitulate to what she asks you to do and work to not lose her.”
“The more invested in you women become, the more they want to be with you, and the more they're willing to do for you to maintain what they have with you. On the other hand, the more invested in a woman you become, the more you're going to shy away from taking bold action with her, the less aggressively you'll push things forward with her, and the more likely you are to do what she asks or tells you to do.”
“The person who appears to put the least amount of effort out, while getting the largest amount of effort returned to him by others, comes across as the most socially powerful.”
“The prize does not approach. If you want to win that big stuffed bear at the county fair, you've got to hit the bottles with the baseballs – the bear isn't the one throwing the baseballs at bottle in order that you might be able to win it. The bear's the prize; all it does is sit there and wait to be won. You do all the work.”
“When I was in high school, I had a lot of girls chasing after me because I'd find ways to capture their attention in class or in the hallways, often without talking to them at all, and show my sense of humor and coolness and social dominance as I did. Pretty soon they'd be chasing.”
“When we talk about sprezzatura, and when we talk about the Law of Least Effort, what we're actually talking about is putting in less visible effort. In other words, it's all about the appearance of being effortless.”
“When will you know you're the prize? Only when you already are.
Not until women begin chasing you and pursuing you and falling in love with you and putting you on a pedestal the way most men put women on pedestals will you begin to believe that you are the prize. Only when your life circumstances, your data sets, your reference points reinforce this believe. Only then do you know it, instead of think it.”
“Women love men who can get them intrigued and attracted in a hurry.”
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“You don't know or truly believe you can do something until you've done it (false confidence not withstanding... and that doesn't hold up all that well under pressure).”
“You should always be the most comfortable person in the room. A good rule of thumb is, if you feel comfortable, you look comfortable. The more comfortable you look, the more confident, strong, and effortless you appear.”
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“As long as a Nice Guy is willing to settle for bad sex, he limits his opportunities to experience good sex. I regularly tell Nice Guys, "You have to be willing to let go of what you've got to get what you want." Good sex can occur only when a recovering Nice Guy decides to stop settling for bad sex!”