Corey Wayne Quotes

“Because of movies, music and television shows, men have come to believe that they are supposed to wait on a woman hand and foot and act like a stalker to make women fall for them.

They learn, basically, that if they become her do-boy, she will fall in love with them. That may look romantic in the movies, but when you try that in real life, that is not the way it happens.

It actually turns them off. Approval seeking behavior is not masculine. It is creepy stalker-like behavior.”

“First date, how you planned to get a limo, and all these amazing, crazy, ridiculous things. Then you call her, and she doesn’t even remember who you are. That shows that she has a very low level of attraction.

In this case, I have actually told the woman: I’m sorry. I must have the wrong number. I am only going to go out with women who are saying: Oh, yes. I was wondering when you were going to call. I am only going to spend my time with somebody that is really into me.”

“I like to meet out for a drink first. Why? If you decide you don’t like her, it’s easy to leave. If things go well, then you can order appetizers and maybe dinner.

Have two or three places close by that you can go to if things go well. Maybe go to a second place for darts, to shoot pool, a wine bar, bowling, miniature golf, etc.”

“I would respond: Well, it sounds like it is not a good time for us to get together, so let’s just do it another night. Then be quiet and wait for her response.

If she backs up and keeps the plans as they were, then you just passed her test. If she says: Okay, let’s do it another time, without naming a specific day and time, then wait a full week before calling to make another date.

If she pulls the same thing, then you know her attraction level is below a 5, and she is out for good.”

“If she says: I’m free Wednesday or Thursday. You are going to respond: How about we meet at blah, blah on Thursday at 8 pm? Provided you’re both free then.

When she says, sure! Then say, Great, Jessica. I look forward to seeing you Thursday night at 8. If you get there first, get us a table. If I get there first, I will get us a table.

If something comes up, I will call you. Otherwise, I will see you at blah, blah. Does that sound good? Her: Yes. That’s it.”

“If you only wait for the ones you really like, you’ll choke and walk away pissed off at yourself for not being ready and blowing a good opportunity, simply because you were not prepared.”

“Just remember: Until she is in love with you, you want to stay off the phone, even if she is the one calling you.”

“My lady is no longer in love with me, and things aren’t going that well. At that point, you have to turn it around quick and do all the things that made you successful in the first place.”

“People can hide who they really are for the first 90 days of a relationship.”

“Remember, it’s a scientific fact that women are more attracted to men whose feelings are unclear.”

“She said: Okay. Call me before you come just to confirm. I told her: I don’t call and confirm dates or appointments. I’m a very busy guy. I would like to take you to lunch. If you can’t make a definite commitment to get together with me for lunch, then we will just have to do it some other time.”

“She says: What is your number in case something comes up? Please call me later in the week to confirm, etc. That means it is more than likely that something is going to come up, and she is going to cancel.

My response in this situation is something along the lines of: Jessica, I have a really busy schedule, and I would definitely like to see you, but if you can’t make definite plans with me, then how about we just do it some other time?

Then you are going to wait for her response. It is what we call in sales, the Take Away or Negative Sale.”

“She wants to feel your strength. She wants to feel your ability to resist her.”

“The best way I have found to meet women is at weddings, art shows, seminars, private parties, social events, malls, grocery stores, trade shows or even at work.”

“The lower her attraction level, the more she will test you.”

“The more she likes you, the easier she makes it.”

“The phone is for setting appointments, not getting to know someone.”

“The quality of your life is in direct proportion to the quality of the people you consistently spend your time with.”

“The right thing to do would have been to talk for no more than 10 minutes and then say: Hey, when are you free to meet up for a drink?”

“When a guy is abusive and controlling, it is because deep inside, he is feeling needy and insecure.”

“When I go out with a woman, my primary goal is for her to have a good time – that’s it.”

“When she’s wondering about you, it is having a positive effect on her level of attraction.”

“When you go out on a date, you are there to be a gentleman, a charming James Bond – not her approval-seeking servant.”

“You have to remain centered at all times and never let her push you off that center.”

“You need to maintain your level of mystery, not just in the beginning, but throughout the relationship.”