Kevin Samuels Quotes
Best 50 Quotes by Kevin Samuels – Page 1 of 2
“A high value man starts with money. Now there are a lot of people who don't like that concept, but I didn't come up with the whole notion of a six-figure guy, this has been with us since 1985.
Making that ten thousand dollars a month is a benchmark and then making that amount of money for three to five years. Anybody can have a good year or two but stringing it together implies some sort of consistency.
Then after that, you know other high value men recognize you as a peer or a possible peer. Having a life that's kind of what I call LinkedIn level. Meaning, saying you're the VP of mergers and acquisitions at Goldman Sachs is different than saying "I'm an entrepreneur". We know what one of those things mean at a glance.
Having a network of high-value men and others and being most useful to others and the group. Those are six basic principles around being a high-value man.”
“A high-value woman is attractive and appealing, she has a comforting character, she's discerning and disciplined, she's enthusiastic and exuberant, she's loyal and liberated. That's the definition of a high-value woman.”
“A woman that's in high demand, her mindset is three main things: she's cooperative, she's smart, and she's agreeable. All three of those things must be there.
She must be smart, but a woman that's smart and disagreeable is not a woman that's in high demand, she's not a woman that's really wanted.
A woman who's smart and cooperative but not agreeable is kind of useless. Cause she'll only cooperate when she agrees.
A woman who's cooperative and agreeable but not smart is kinda like the blind leading the blind.
She must be smart, cooperative and agreeable.”
“Ask a woman what she wants from a man and she'll give you a thesaurus, a list, an encyclopedia.
Ask what she brings to the table and you can write it on the back of a stamp.”
“Chivalry is dead because women killed it.”
“Classy women don't lie. Weave is a lie, make-up is a lie, waist trainers are a lie, spanks are a lie, girdles are a lie. Stop lying.
You must dress like a woman: skirts, skirts and more skirts. Skirts and dresses.
Get rid of the flip-flops. Get rid of the sandals and dress like a grown up woman.
Get rid of the yoga pants and anything that shows your natural *ss. Get rid of things that show your midriff or your stomach.
We don't need to see all of that, that's for your man.”
“Do not give to anybody based upon your level of attraction or interest. Do or give based upon their level of investment.
If she gives 1 you give 1, if she gives 2 you give 2.
Making women not earn you time is a great way to get stuck in the friend zone or losing attraction.”
“Fashion and style have always been passions of mine for as long as I can remember. And a background in professional sales as well as in advertising and marketing was real world training for just how important your appearance is to your success.”
“Gentlemen, if a woman is not good for your ego, get rid of her.”
“I don't care about your pride. You can't be proud and broke at the same time.”
“I don’t know what you’re talking about that a man shouldn’t cheat or whatever, when you broke the first rule that men want: women who are fit.
At 5'8" and 220 lbs, you weigh more than a man at that height. You’re about the size that Emmitt Smith and Barry Sanders were, you’re running-back size.
I need you to get fit, feminine, friendly, cooperative, and submissive in order to find a man.”
“I expect men to want to be getting into the top 10% of men. $120,000 a year, 10 grand a month, that's what it's gonna cost you, minimum.
The less money you make the less demands you can make upon any kinda woman.”
“I get so sick of black people with their zodiac sh*t.”
“I think a lot of mixed messages are sent out to women. When I come out and say something that we talk about on the basketball court, in the barber shop, in the gym, at Buffalo Wild Wings amongst men that we accept to be true, it's 'shocking'.
It's like well, who do you think these boyfriends and husbands are going to come from? They're not going to come from this infinitely small group of musicians and attorneys and athletes. It's going to come from the regular guys over here or maybe the above average guys over here.”
“I want you guys to understand. What is a woman? It's a SMV.
These women actually think they can make themselves higher SMV because of their degree but that doesn't work.
Men have never picked women based upon their degree.
That is why you can be on fries at McDonald's, but if you look like Kelly Rowland you can marry a billionaire.”
“I’m not telling you, you can't do a damn thing. You can act however you want to act and you get the outcomes you get.”
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“Virginity doesn’t matter… to women. It matters to men.”
“If a woman decides to go on a date with any man after the hours of 5 p.m., intimacy should be on the menu. However, if the intention of the woman is to keep the relationship with the man 'strictly platonic', the time frame of noon to 3 p.m. is more suitable.”
“If you have made it to 35 and you are unmarried, you are a leftover woman. You are what is left. Men know that there is likely something wrong with you.
When you were between the ages of 22 and 25 and you didn’t want to settle — you were trying to get the CEO, the pilot, the investment banker, you were trying to get flewed out.”
“If you're a quality thorough man, it is your responsibility to yourself to marry a woman who has an exceptional mindset and leads with her femininity. Femininity is non-negotiable.”
“Ladies understand something when a man asks you out on a date he's asking to have sex! If you don't wanna have sex with him don't go on a date with him.”
“Ladies when you go on a date you get one drink. If you're not in a committed relationship, you don't get two drinks. And in general you need to look at what the man is ordering and order less.
But how many women think "Well I'm going out on diner, Hell he asked me out so I'm gonna go and live it up." Think about it. How many women approach the sheer fact of being a woman like it entitles them to get every man's bag.
Y'all expect everything today. You wanna hit the clubs at 3AM, you wanna go on dates, you wanna do all kinda stuff. And then you're simply asked "What are we gonna get in return? What do you bring to the table?"
It's offensive.”
“Ladies, you wonder why your men steps out and exercises his options? Because you ain't meeting his needs.”
“Making a man in your present pay for stuff in your past equals no future.”
“Men get told every day where they rank, they get rejected all the time. Men known what they quote unquote 'qualify' for.
But women for the last 30 to 40 years have been told they can have it all whenever they want, no matter how they are. And they’ve been given an unrealistic expectation of their actual sexual marketplace value.”
“Men in general, worldwide were more masculine because we didn't have feminism.
Your mother's generation and your grandmother's generation, they really failed you guys because they told you, you didn't need a man.
So who raised these feminine weak black men that you have a problem with? Who raised them? 80 procent of black children are born out of wedlock. Who raised them? Black women.”
“Men who are the bag, men who are ambitious, men who are purpose and goal driven, productive competitive succesful men... they're not going to come home and negotiate power with you.
I lead you follow, I have all the responsibility. I make a world to where you can sit down and I take care of everything but you have to be under my authority.
And what that means is you have to trust in the fact that I know what I'm doing to where I'm not gonna have you nag me 50 million times.”
“Most men want relationships, most men want marriage. Who's leaving relationships?
Women are walking out of the door 70 to 90 percent of the time. And who are they listening to? Women.”
“So many modern women today cannot deliver the girlfriend experience. That's why you don't get the wife treatment. The girlfriend experience is respect, affection, support, peace and tranquility.”
“Stop being a lone wolf. This is the problem, this is why so many of you will never raise your value. You try to do it on your own.
You're trying to be Tesla and you need to be Edison. You need to get a group. People like you, people who wanna do stuff for you.
Being right, principled and moral only makes you a loser if you don't have the other components.
It's not an 'either/or' thing, life is 'and'. You need a group.”
“The average black man in this country earns $41,500 for a lifetime. No more, no less.
No Herculean methods, no lottery, no businesses. That's what he's gonna make, that's your husband.”
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“I would say that until we are independent, we cannot choose to be empathetic. The pivotal word is choice. The empathy an independent person chooses to offer is more reliable than that of a person who lives through attachments.
It is lack of independence, an addiction to connections, that makes us mean, b*tchy, and less than empathetic when we fear that the connection to our best friend/husband/lover is threatened.”