Kevin Samuels Quotes

Who is Kevin Samuels?

Kevin Roshon Samuels was an American social media host and dating coach and consultant on YouTube. He was purposely controversial in his opinions on relationships and the role of women in general.

Kevin Samuels built an image of a hypermasculine authority and became a TikTok phenomenon after his sudden death in 2022.

Born March 13, 1965
Died May 05, 2022

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Best 28 Quotes by Kevin Samuels

“A high value man starts with money. Now there are a lot of people who don't like that concept, but I didn't come up with the whole notion of a six-figure guy, this has been with us since 1985.

Making that ten thousand dollars a month is a benchmark and then making that amount of money for three to five years. Anybody can have a good year or two but stringing it together implies some sort of consistency.

Then after that you known other high value men recognize you as a peer or a possible peer. Having a life that's kind of what I call LinkedIn level. Meaning saying you're the VP of mergers and acquisitions at Goldman Sachs is different than saying "I'm an entrepreneur'. We know what one of those things mean at a glance.

Having a network of high-value men and others and being most useful to others and the group. Those are six basic principles around being a high-value man.”

“A woman that's in high demand, her mindset is three main things: she's cooperative, she's smart, and she's agreeable. All three of those things must be there.

She must be smart, but a woman that's smart and disagreeable is not a woman that's in high demand, she's not a woman that's really wanted.

A woman who's smart and cooperative but not agreeable is kind of useless. Cause she'll only cooperate when she agrees.

A woman who's cooperative and agreeable but not smart is kinda like the blind leading the blind.

She must be smart, cooperative and agreeable.”

“Do not give to anybody based upon your level of attraction or interest. Do or give based upon their level of investment.

If she gives 1 you give 1, if she gives 2 you give 2.

Making women not earn you time is a great way to get stuck in the friend zone or losing attraction.”

“Fashion and style have always been passions of mine for as long as I can remember. And a background in professional sales as well as in advertising and marketing was real world training for just how important your appearance is to your success.”

“Gentlemen, if a woman is not good for your ego, get rid of her.”

“I don't care about your pride. You can't be proud and broke ate the same time.”

“I don’t know what you’re talking about that a man shouldn’t, cheat or whatever. When you broke the first rule that men want: women who are fit. At five feet eight and 220 pounds, you weigh more than a man at that height. You’re about the size that Emmitt Smith and Barry Sanders were, you’re running-back size. I need you to get fit, feminine, friendly, cooperative, and submissive in order to find a man.”

“I think a lot of mixed messages are sent out to women. When I come out and say something that we talk about on the basketball court, in the barber shop, in the gym, at Buffalo Wild Wings amongst men that we accept to be true, it's 'shocking'.

It's like well, who do you think these boyfriends and husbands are going to come from? They're not going to come from this infinitely small group of musicians and attorneys and athletes. It's going to come from the regular guys over here or maybe the above average guys over here.”

“I’m not telling you you can't do a damn thing. You can act however you want to act and you get the outcomes you get.”

“If a woman decides to go on a date with any man after the hours of 5 p.m., intimacy should be on the menu. However, if the intention of the woman is to keep the relationship with the man 'strictly platonic', the time frame of noon to 3 p.m. is more suitable.”

“If you have made it to 35 and you are unmarried, you are a leftover woman. You are what is left. Men know that there is likely something wrong with you. When you were between the ages of 22 and 25 and you didn’t want to settle — you were trying to get the CEO, the pilot, the investment banker, you were trying to get flewed out.”

“Ladies understand something when a man asks you out on a date he's asking to have sex! If you don't wanna have sex with him don't go on a date with him.”

“Ladies, you wonder why your men steps out and exercises his options? Because you ain't meeting his needs.”

“Making a man in your present pay for stuff in your past equals no future.”

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“Men get told every day where they rank, they get rejected all the time. Men known what they quote unquote qualify for, but women for the last 30-40 years have been told you can have it all whenever you want no matter how you are. And they've been given an unrealistic expectation of their actual sexual marketplace value.”

“So many modern women today cannot deliver the girlfriend experience. That's why you don't get the wife treatment. The girlfriend experience is respect, affection, support, peace and tranquility.”

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“Both sexes place a tremendous value on intelligence and dependability in a lifetime mate. Both seek long-term mates who are cooperative, trustworthy, and loyal. And both desire mates who will not inflict crushing costs on them. We are all of one species from the same planet. Recognition of our shared psychology and shared biology is one step toward producing harmony between the sexes.”

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“The first thing I tell guys I coach is that we have to get brutally honest about where you are and where you want to get to. Understand how far that is and put in the work.”

“The man who has two children by two different women that he he never married. The guy in the last ten years has not built brick one of the school he's collected money from.

The man who calls you 'queen', 'mother' 'goddess', and all this other kind of stuff and again. Yeah, I don't have a problem with men like that...”

“The question is not 'Are women important?', it's relative contribution. If you take the wage gap, the way it's calculated – women's hours worked, men's hours worked, divide by the number and it comes up with a number.

Of course there's a wage gap but what it doesn't account for is multivariate analysis. We have these conversations about gender and it tends to be unvaried one way.

We don't take into consideration that just like women want higher representation at the upper levels of corporations, they should then have a higher representation at the lower levels too.

You need to be digging ditches. You need to be collecting trash. They only want the representation at the higher end.

Yes, there are women who are valuable in corporations but six percent of women in this country are earning 100,000 dollars - six!

In STEM – science, technology, engineering and math – it is known that colleges and universities are struggling to get more women into these programs.

So after these companies are built can women come in? Yes, but who's taking the risk building these organisations? Overwhelmingly it's men. ”

“Typically women like you trying to get something outside of their range knowing it's outside their range, knowing that you don't know these kind of men. You don't know where these guys go, you don't know what they want. yeah you're fixated on having them because you feel like you should have them beacause your socioeconomic status. Not a good chance you're going to find that person if you don't you'll end up dying without one meaning die alone.”

“We ask so much of each other without realizing how much of a sacrifice it is to give someone what they want physically, mentally and financially. Women want a financially stable, young, sensitive man capable of violence and men want a chaste, sexually liberated mother who also can host dinner parties.”

“We have gotten to the point that for the most part we don't known how to relate to each other. We know how to swipe left, swipe right, hook up and get on.”

“We're shocked because people don't tell women the truth these days. Men get told the truth all the time, women have no problem telling a man: I don't want an average man. It happens every day on my show. TLC said they don't want no scrubs and we have no problem telling average men 'you ain't crap' but if I just happen to have the nerve to agree with the woman that says she's average then I'm Satan.”

“What percentage of men in this country make six figures or more? It's 10%. So the question is what do those men, who make that kind of money, who all women tend to want, what do they want?”

“Women by nature want to consolidate on the highest value man possible. Social media and dating apps have now made it where you have almost 100% of women wanting men in the top 10 and 20%. To produce this outcome, which is unrealistic, you want a man making at least six figures, that’s only 10%, 14% of the population.”

“Women for the last 30 to 40 years have been told they can have it all whenever they want, no matter how they are. And they’ve been given an unrealistic expectation of their actual sexual marketplace value.”

“Women like you die alone, straight up, because you think you’re better than the men that you qualify for. And the only reason honestly, ma’am, that I can see a woman like yourself really thinking you deserve more is because you earn more money than most people around you in North Carolina.

High value men don’t care about your money, not the kind of men that you want. We don’t care about your money, it ain’t ours. We care about the fact that you are older, and you got kids and you're average in looks.”

“You act on what you know and how you know how to do things. That's why I would never begrudge my ex-wives.”

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