Rollo Tomassi Quotes

“The feminist goal is removing all constraints on female sexuality while maximally restricting male sexuality.”

“Tomassi Maxim #29: The more outspoken a guy is about being a champion of women's issues, an 'ally' or self-identifying as a 'male feminist', the more likely he will be accused/convicted of sexual misconduct and crimes against the Sisterhood.”

“30 is the general age at which men (should) become aware of their own, longer-lasting sexual market value and potential.”

“A man with options has power, and from these options and this sense of power, a natural sense of confidence will manifest itself. A man without options becomes necessitous and this leads to a lack of confidence and a scarcity mentality. Necessitous men are never free.”

“A scoundrel and a champion can be equally Alpha or Beta in their own psyche.”

“A shit test is a subtle psychological test (that all too many men are unaware of) meant to determine who needs the other more.”

“A truly powerful man jealously guards his most precious resources; his independence and his ability to maneuver. In other words his options and his ability to exercise them.”

“A woman’s imagination is the single most useful tool in your game arsenal. Every technique, every casual response, every gesture, intimation and subcommunication hinges on stimulating a woman’s imagination.”

“Alpha is mindset, not a demographic. Alpha is as Alpha does, it isn’t what we say it is. There are noble Alphas and there are scoundrel Alphas, the difference is all in how they apply themselves.”

“Anxiety, trauma and crisis are necessary catalysts to stimulate self-consciousness.”

“Any woman who makes you wait for sex, or by her actions implies she is making you wait for sex; the sex is never worth the wait.”

“Are you Alpha enough to take a rejection on the chin, smile and confidently come back for more? Or will you run, will you block yourself, will you hide with convenient buffers.”

“Ask a woman to name the most attractive female actress they can think of. Odds are it will be a woman who as a guy you’d never think of.”

“Both sexes objectify one another. Naturally when we think of this, the popularized notion is that men objectify women as sex objects, but women have a tendency to objectify men as 'success objects' for the same reason. It is easier to accept rejection from an object than it is to take it from a living, breathing, human being. This is why we refer to intergender communication as a 'game'. We 'score' or we get 'shot down' not personally or emotionally rejected; the buffer is in the language and mental approach.”

“Call it 'caffeinating the hamster' if you will, but stimulating a woman’s imaginings is the single most potent talent you can develop in any context of a relationship.”

“Comfort comes from familiarity and predictability; all decidedly anti-seductive influences. And while comfort has its own merits in interpersonal relationships, it is not the basis for genuine, passionate sexual desire.”

“Communicate with your behavior. Never overtly tell a woman anything. Allow her to come to the conclusions you intend. Her imagination is the best tool in your Game toolbox. Learn how to use it.”

“Covert communication frustrates us every bit as much as overt communication frustrates women. Our language has no art to it for them, that’s why we seem dumb or simple at best to women.”

“Despite all odds, people largely feel entitled to, or deserving of, an important love of their life.”

“Dropping the Soul-Mate Myth isn’t the nihilism a lot of people might have you believe it is. If anything it will free you to have a better, healthier future relationship with someone who is genuinely important to you – a relationship based on genuine desire, mutual respect, complimentary understanding of each other and love, rather than one based on a fear of losing your ONE and only representation of contentment in this life.”

“Even motivations not consciously recognized by the actor can influence behavior regardless of a consciously rationalized motive. In other words, sometimes we don’t realize why we’re hypocrites or saints as the case may be.”

“Every sexual competitor seeks to disqualify their rivals from breeding opportunities. Most animals fight for territory or harem rights. Humans generally (though certainly not exclusively) do the same combat in the psychological.

We seek to disqualify sexual competitors by calling into doubt the sexual credibility of a rival. 'Yeah, he’s really good looking, but that means he’s probably gay' from a man, or 'You think that blonde with the big boobs is hot? Girls who dress like that are usually sl*ts' from a woman are both psychological, sexually disqualifying forms of combat.”

“Everything a woman does on a daily basis is colored by competition anxiety.”

“Experience teaches harsh, but it teaches best and the breadth of experience serves a man well.”

“Experience teaches harsh, but it teaches best. Rejection, real, raw, in your face rejection stings like a b*tch. It must be something so intolerable that human beings will devise countless social and psychological constructs in order to avoid it. However, there is no better teacher than getting burned by the stove. As a man, you are going to face rejection in far more facets of your life than just dealing with a woman.”

“For a female of any species to facilitate a methodology for breeding with the best genetic partner she’s able to attract and to ensure her own and her offspring’s survival with the best provisioning partner is an evolutionary jackpot.”

“Genghis Khan was Alpha as f*ck, and a leader-of-men, but probably would be on most people’s douchebag list for that era.”

“Genuine desire is something a person must come to – or be led to – of their own volition. You can force a woman by threat to comply with behaving in a desired manner, but you cannot make her want to behave that way. A prostitute will f*ck you for an exchange, it doesn’t mean she wants to.”

“Good girls are just bad girls who never got caught.”

“Great politicians, military leaders, businessmen, salesmen to be sure, and of course master PUAs all use covert communications to achieve their goals.”