Ross Jeffries Quotes Page 2

“You let action and reality teach you what will work rather than your worry, guessing or speculation.”

“Are you aware that the activity of attraction that takes place inside of a woman is all that matters?

Don’t worry about whether you’re attractive, where do you put your focus on, what are the states of consciousness and the flows of feeling that you want in her body which she’s likely to give you the behaviors that you want.”

“�‏There’s a difference in saying I am socially awkward and saying that I have yet to master the skills of social interaction that our mind declaim.

They’re both equally true in a sense but one is an identity statement.”

“�‏Trance is an altered state of consciousness. It was different from the one you were just in a minute ago. Trance is a state of focus and relaxation where the person is free to examine what used to be fixed patterns of thinking and feeling behavior and they can take on various different perspectives and look at their problems from different angles, and therefore find solutions.

If you look at it on the neurological level, it’s a calming down of the neural nets and neural pathways that had been getting in people’s way so they can then begin to create new ones, new neural pathways and new neural connections.”

“Being true to myself, and walking my own path is more important to me than getting into your pants.”

“Elegance is a matter of how easy and powerful something is to execute.”

“First and foremost, you have to recognize that there’s no such thing as love, there’s no such thing as attraction, there’s no such thing as desire.

Meaning, they’re not things, like a chair, or a rock. They’re not even qualities within you. They are activities that arise inside of the neurology of the woman who you are seducing.”

“Her first response is not her final response.”

“I am passionately in love with language and its power to transform people both in terms of change in themselves and influencing others.”

“I don’t consider myself to be a pick-up artist. That’s other people. I consider myself to be an attraction engineer.”

“I think a lot of NLP is a set of attention direction filters to tell you what to filter out and ignore and what to pay attention to with people.”

“I’ll look for responsive attentiveness. I look for pupil dilation. I look for her moving her body closer to mine. I’ll test her with certain touches.

I’ll do something like the relaxed lean, I’ll lean into her a little bit. If her muscles are loose and relax, she leans back into me, there are certain signals like that.”

“If you woke up tomorrow, and all of your limiting patterns of believing, thinking, acting, feeling, moving through the world were gone, how would you know?”

“In NLP they say the more flexible frame wins. They say in any system, the element that has the most requisite variety is going to be the element that controls.”

“Inside of every woman, something wonderful is sleeping, longing for me to awaken it.”

“Inside of every woman, something wonderful is sleeping, waiting for me to awaken it.”

“Isn’t that a primary female fantasy, to meet a guy who’s so intriguing that she just can’t control herself, she’s going to go home with him that night and that this could be the beginning of something really big and powerfully important that’s going to blossom in their life. We all want that.”

“Language structures consciousness, shapes decisions and drives behavior. Both intrapersonally, the way you relate to yourself and interpersonally, the way you relate to others.

You ignore the power of language to do these things at your own disadvantage, I would even say, in some cases at your own peril.”

“Nothing I present is true with a capital T, it’s only a map.”

“Okay. She has a boyfriend. So what? Oftentimes, the boyfriend is not the entire conversation. He’s just a punctuation mark. He’s not the story, he’s a bookmark.”

“Once a woman says she’s in love with you, then it gets crazy.”

“One of my definitions of a geek is someone who relies on internal dialogue as their main way of processing and moving through their world.

That’s useful if you’re doing code and you’re doing ones and zeroes, but it’s not very useful in interacting and relating with other people, particularly with women.”

“One of the things that gets in the way is guys are so into their internal dialogue. Does she like me, does she like not like me, what do I do next.

That they’re not even able to calibrate what’s going on with that woman in front of them. When you can teach guys to quiet their mind, that’s half the battle.”

“Pick up is a separate activity from seduction. I don’t consider myself a pick up artist. I consider myself an Eros Space Engineer, but also an agent of personal transformation.”

“There are certain things that arouse women. What is it like to be totally swept away? What is it like to feel that sexual tension just before you make out with someone who you’re really going to get into for the first time?”

“Think not in terms of behavior but in terms of states of consciousness.”

“Today is a new day, building on yesterday and creating the foundations for tomorrow.”

“Uncertainty is the ticket you buy to enjoy the ride of clarity and purpose.”

“Whatever you can get a woman to imagine will be perceived by her as being her own thoughts, and therefore will not be resisted.”

“When I work with people, one of the first things I do is to take the limitation away from their identity and then bind it in time. Here is what I mean.

If someone says, “I’m just not good at meeting women.” I would say, “Up until now, it was the case that the skills of meeting women were not something that you yet had command.”