Tony Gaskins Quotes

Who is Tony Gaskins?

Tony Allen Gaskins Jr. is a motivational speaker and author of self-help books on various topics including business, success and relationship advice.

Gaskins has appeared on The Oprah Winfrey Show and The Tyra Banks Show.

Born March 08, 1984

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“A leader isn't a dictator, a leader is a servant.”

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“A lot of time we build on lust that becomes very strong. Yet, when that lust wears off we think that love is running out, but really it's the lust that had an expiration date. We have to know what real love is and if we're really in love.”

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“A real relationship is like a river; the deeper it gets the less noise it makes.”

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“A woman shouldn't have to give a man her body to get his heart.”

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“Be willing to go alone. Many who started with you won’t finish with you.”

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“Being with one woman in a faithful relationship will cause you to be the happiest version of yourself.”

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“Bitter people, God loves them and so should we. Pray for them. They will find something negative to say about anything positive. They can’t be happy for you because they are disgusted with themselves. Don’t become bitter with them, become better and pray for their growth and maturity.”

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“Block negativity. You don’t have to endure nonsense; confront it, then remove it from your life. Own your happiness and never put it up for auction.”

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“Character is what makes a man.”

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“Consistency is the key! If you can't be consistent, then you can't be anything.”

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“Develop strength and control at an early age and embrace love coupled with a selfless heart. Only then, will you find true peace in your heart and begin the journey to the best version of yourself and the best days of your life.”

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“Don't make excuses! Make changes!”

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“Don’t let anyone drive you crazy.”

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“Don’t let your values change with society; instead let your values change society.”

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“Don’t look for someone just like you. Look for someone who has qualities you don’t have. a marriage is like a puzzle. You need someone who brings different pieces to the table.”

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“Don’t lose yourself trying to be everything to everyone else.”

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“There is a difference between desire and desperation.”


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“Don’t talk yourself out of what you deserve.”

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“Embrace the struggle and let it make you stronger. It won't last forever.”

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“Evaluate the people in your life; then promote, demote, or terminate. You're the CEO of your life!”

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“Even at your best, someone will have something negative to say. Pursue greatness anyways!”

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“Everything I do, although I also make a living, I’m chasing purpose, not profit.”

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“God makes originals not carbon copies. It's okay to be inspired by someone, but be bold enough to be yourself.”

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“I believe the media pretty much dictates the way relationships are handled, even in the way we handle ourselves. Abuse, cheating, threesomes, it's inspired by music and television. Irresponsible artists and writers with a hidden agenda, just working against the moral fabric that God intended for us to have.”

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“I believe you should seek to understand and then be understood.”

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“I forgive you but I also learn a lesson. I won’t hate you but I’ll never get close enough for you to hurt me again. I can’t let me forgiveness become foolishness.”

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“I had to learn how to be faithful. When I was dating around and moving from woman to woman, I did not understand and know how to be faithful. Subsequently, once I entered into marriage, I had to learn how to be with one woman. For me, that was the biggest challenge of all.”

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“I like to see that a person has done what they are teaching. We live in a world of broke financial advisors, of single matchmakers.. I do my due diligence. If you can’t implement it in your own life, then something is missing.”

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“I started understanding that my strength is my gentleness.”

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“I was ignorant to the world around me, so I didn’t know my limitations… So I had no limitations.”

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“I wrote my first book when I was 22 years old. I have a way with words and I love to write. I can write without getting writers block so I knew, it was a gift.”

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“Men produce strategies for success.”


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